Monday, October 3, 2011

Story of My Life - Decatur Days - Part 1

This is a story of my life. I've had a good life and I intend to have many more years left of it. I was born Linda Alyson Smith on January 14, 1949, in Decatur, Illinois, at Macon County Hospital to my mother, Ruth, and father, Rollin. I was the first child born to my parents and the first grandchild on both sides of the family so you can imagine how loved I was.

My first house was on Grand Avenue. I don't remember the exact address since I lived there only until I was five. Maybe my mother will remember. I do have a few memories of living there. I remember that my grandpa Smith's office was next door and my grandpa was a doctor. When I was around five, I remember one time when I went to visit my best friend, Karen Longbons, who lived a few doors down the street from me and she had a razor blade. I guess she wanted to see how it worked and decided to experiment on me. I'd never seen a razor blade and didn't know how it worked either. She asked me to extend my arm and she then proceeded to cut my right wrist, luckily on the outside of it. Karen's sister and her boyfriend were near by and they carried me to my grandpa's office. I think all he did was put a butterfly bandage on it. Anyway, it healed and I lived through it. I don't think I saw much of Karen Longbons after that.

I also remember one particular day of kindergarten at Pugh Elementary, which was two blocks from where I lived. On this particular day, we were all sitting in a circle on the floor and a little boy sitting near me threw up! Those are my only experiences that I remember about living on Grand Avenue.

My mom does tell me a story now and then, but I don’t remember it. She tells me that when I was very little and in a crib, one night I claimed there was a cow under my bed. She told me there was no cow, but I wouldn’t go to sleep because THERE WAS A COW UNDER MY BED! So she and Daddy pretended to pull the cow out from under my bed. I went to sleep soon afterwards.

She also tells me that I had a favorite pillow and blanket, of which I named “Odjie” and “Dup-Dup”. She said that Daddy has a cousin named Roger and that I called lots of things “Odjie” after I’d met him.

I have a little sister, Cynthia Joan -- Joan pronounced in two syllables. That's my aunt's name -- my mom's sister. We've always been very close. She was born on August 18, 1950. I enjoyed having a built-in playmate all my life.

At this point I want to tell you about my grandparents. Dr. Raimer and Opal Smith and Troy and Mildred Purdue lived in Decatur. They were the best grandparents a child could have! And my sister and I spent a lot of time with them growing up. I was thankful for being able to have that time with my grandparents. When we went to Grandpa and Grandma Smith's house, Grandma would let us drink tea out of her china cups and she always had cookies and homemade candy like divinity that she let us eat. They lived in a big house on Water Street. Cindy and I used to slide down the stairs on our bottoms, throw things down the laundry shoot then run to the basement and retrieve them, and swing for endless hours on the swing set in the backyard. At Grandpa and Grandma Purdue's house we'd cut out paper dolls on the dining room table from the pattern books Grandma would get at one of the fabric stores. Grandpa would make BIG dill pickles just for me and always had Windmill cookies and licorice or he’d make us root beer floats. Cindy and I would line up all the kitchen chairs in the kitchen and put all of our dolls and stuffed animals on them and dress up in Grandma's clothes and take trips on our train to Disneyland and France, all in one day! Grandpa called us Miss O'Flarity and Miss McGillicutty. They’d let us stay up late and we’d sit in the living room and watch “Lawrence Welk” and “Gunsmoke” on TV. I liked to cover up with Grandma’s pink and red afghan. It had fringe on it until I cut some of it off!

Most of our aunts, uncles, and cousins lived in Decatur, IL, and we saw them often when we lived in Illinois. We played with our cousins that were all within 10 years of age of Cindy and me. There is Charlie, Larry and Gary, sons of Uncle Adrian and Aunt Eileen Ernst. Charlie liked to play "office" and would write and draw on paper on Grandpa's desk. I always wanted to play with Larry. I thought he was the cutest! There is Phil and Phyllis, son and daughter of Uncle Jack and Aunt Louise Wickline. Louise and Eileen are my dad's sisters. On my mom's side, my cousins are David Jr., Scott and Rob, sons of Uncle David and Aunt Joan Jack. David Jr. was awful as a young kid and he would kick and bite. Cindy and I didn't like to play with him. He turned out to be a very polite and wonderful young man, however. Rob had juvenile diabetes and died at the age of 23. He liked old cars and toy trains and had a train set in the basement of their house.

My mom and her sister, Joan, have a first cousin who lived with them from the age of two so we've always considered him an uncle. Uncle Ned and Aunt Anne have a son, Mark and a daughter, Missy. They lived far away so we didn't see much of them when we were younger. Uncle Ned was a forest ranger and I remember one of our vacations and going to Minnesota where he and Aunt Anne lived then. Grandpa and Grandma Purdue went with us and we celebrated my sister's 10th birthday on the way there. I think we went up in one of the ranger towers on that trip also.

To see more pics of me when I lived in Decatur, here is the Shutterfly link -- share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=8EbMmLJq3aKRJo

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Dreams of Flying

Have you ever had a dream that you can fly? Just lift up your arms and away you go into the sky to fly around and look at the town below you? I do have these dreams that I can fly now and then. I love these dreams. I always wake up with a happy feeling. Last night I had one of these dreams and I took my younger son (who died in November 2005) with me. I had never taken anyone flying with me in my dreams. I asked Cavan if he liked it and he was hesitant at first, but he said he did like it. I told him that I liked it too and that I could fly anytime I wanted. I told him that he could do this too, just by putting his hands up into the air and giving a little jump. I've never been afraid in my flying dreams. I've always enjoyed my flights around the town or around the ceiling of a big room. I'm not much of one to try to interpret my night time dreams or to even put much meaning into them. I just enjoy them. Well, most of the time I enjoy my dreams. I have had nightmares that I don't enjoy at all. I've read that when you dream about flying it means that you have been liberated from something that is troubling you. I didn't know I had anything troubling me yesterday or this past week. Maybe I was troubled by this beading project I'm trying to work out. I've remade this necklace twice and I still don't like it. Maybe today I will get it figured out. And maybe tonight I will have another dream about being able to fly.

Thursday, September 15, 2011

More Memories from My Closet - Trip Out West

On August 5, 1962, my grandparents, Grandpa & Grandma Smith, took my sister Cindy and me on a train trip to the Seattle World's Fair, Disneyland and the Grand Canyon. I was 13 years old. We boarded the Santa Fe train in Chicago. We had a car that we slept in and we were on the train for three days, as it went through the northern states to Seattle, Washington. I remember waking up one morning as we went through Montana and hoping that the train wouldn't fall off the tracks into one of those huge valleys! We got to move around the train and my sister and I remember sitting in the Dome car. I also remember talking to a lady who had a ladybug pin on. I admired that pin and she gave it to me. I would still have it, but in 1998, our house in Dallas was robbed and all of my jewelry was stolen.

We stayed at the Doric New Washington Hotel in Seattle and we went to the World's Fair. I don't remember much of the fair. I do remember that Cindy and I wanted to go up in the Space Needle, but the lines were very long and someone told our grandparents that there was a three hour wait and they didn't want to wait in line. So, we never went up in the Space Needle. We were there for two days.

While we were in WA, we went to Puget Sound. Cindy and I remember getting frozen bananas that were covered with chocolate.

We boarded a bus that went to Portland, OR where we stayed at the Imperial Hotel. I don't remember much about Portland. Cindy remembers that at some point during our trip, we saw a vending machine that dispensed drinks in cans (or maybe they were in bottles). We had never seen a vending machine, but we wanted one of the drinks. We got ginger ale or Club Soda. It was awful, but we felt we had to drink it since Grandpa spent his money on it.

Bob was surprised that I was 13 and I had never seen a vending machine. I grew up in Lovington, IL, where the population was 1,200 people. I didn't know about many things until we moved to Springfield, IL around December 1962.

From Portland, we went on to San Francisco. We saw the Golden Gate Bridge and we stayed at the Belleview Hotel.

Next, we went to Disneyland in Los Angeles. I don't remember anything about Disneyland, but I'm sure we rode on some of the rides. We went to the Chinese Theater in Hollywood. I remember this was a bus tour and the guide pointed out famous people's homes. We also went to Knott's Berry Farm and Ghost Town. We stayed at the Biltmore Hotel.

We got back on the train from Los Angeles and we took the southern route on our way back home. I remember stopping at the Grand Canyon.

We arrived in St. Louis, MO, on August 18th, Cindy's 12th birthday.

If you would like to see more photos of this trip, here is the link -- share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=8EbMmLJq3aKQ8g

Tillie the Toiler

In a previous blog I wrote this week, I mentioned that I found some paper dolls that my mother had drawn. I called Mom to tell her that I had found her Tillie Toiler paper doll and she corrected me by saying it is Tillie the Toiler. Our conversation then went on to other things and she didn't explain anything further about Tillie the Toiler. I started thinking about this paper doll and I wanted more information about it. This morning, being a huge Google fan, I Googled "Tillie the Toiler" and found out that it began as a comic strip in 1921 and ran until 1959. It was created by a cartoonist Russ Westover. This is what Wikipedia said about the comic strip:

Tillie (last name Jones) toiled for a fashionable women's wear company run by clothing mogul J. Simpkins. Or usually did, anyway—she'd occasionally quit or be fired, as the plotline, which ran at breakneck pace and didn't always make perfect sense, required. During World War II, in fact, she even joined the U.S. Army. But she always came back to Simpkins. Mostly, she worked in his office, but she also did a little modeling. Whatever she did and wherever she went, however, she was impeccably dressed in the very latest styles. (Except when she was in the army, of course.) This helped her in the pursuit of charming and often wealthy young men, who came and went at an alarming rate, providing grist for the story mill. She did, however, have one steady male associate, Clarence "Mac" MacDougall, a short, bulb-nosed co-worker who loved her persistently even though she returned little of the feeling.

Tillie the Toiler also appeared in comic books as a cut out paper doll and her fashionable clothes.

The comic strip inspired two films of the same name.

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Cooking & Baking

I love to cook and bake and I don't care if it is over 100 degrees outside, I will make homemade soup and a pan of baked muffins -- from scratch, of course. I was taught to open a cookbook and follow a recipe when I was growing up, so I still do this.

This morning I was trying to think ahead about meals for the day. I don't always do this, but I had no plans for the day and I felt like doing some cooking and baking. As I was looking in the refrigerator and freezer to see what I had on hand, I saw many plastic containers with this and that in them. Well, not really "this" and "that". I had some veggies left over from various meals that I put in one container in the freezer. Good for soups. I had a container of frozen strawberries that I put in there when we were leaving on a trip and we had no time to eat them before we left. I found a strawberry muffin recipe I plan to try later today. I can't eat them, as I no longer eat sugar, but the members of Emanuel Lutheran Church LOVE my homemade baked goodies I take for coffee hour! And I had two containers of pasta sauce, left over from previous meals, that I had frozen. Pasta and sauce will be on the menu for dinner tonight. I had eight containers of food sitting in the freezer and refrigerator. Today was a good day to clean them out!

I am making some chicken/rice/veggie soup with some old carrots that were either use them or toss them in the garbage and the container of the frozen veggies. And I had a roasted chicken carcass with some good meat left on it that I bought for another meal. I can usually get two or three good meals from a little roasted chicken I buy at the grocery store. I put it in the freezer after the meal and use it for soup. I had some leftover rice in the refrigerator that I added to my soup. I added a can of Rotel this time too. I guess this is "Everything But the Kitchen Sink Chicken Soup Recipe".

OK. Time to quit writing about my wonderful soup and go eat some. YUM!

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Boxes of Memories in My Closet


Over the Labor Day weekend when Bob and I were sitting for my grandkids, my two granddaughters, Caty who is almost 10, and Carson who is 7, wanted to play with some paper dolls. A year ago when we were sitting for them, I found some paper dolls online at makingfriends.com. Caty and Carson wanted me to print out the same paper dolls for them a couple of weeks ago when we were there. When I was talking to my sister later, we remembered that I had some paper dolls that our mother had hand-drawn when she was a little girl. I knew I had them somewhere in a box in my closet. I had looked one other time and I couldn't find them. Today I had nothing special planned, so I decided to look for those paper dolls again. I have several boxes in my closet that contain things I have saved over the years that were mine or items belonging to my boys. I enjoy looking through those boxes from time to time. I love reading my diaries from junior high and high school, looking at photos of my boys when they were little and looking at their papers from school. Today, I found those paper dolls. Here is a page I scanned. The paper doll, named Tilly Toiler, has three pages of clothes. I also found two autograph books from 1961 and 1962. I hadn't read them in many years.

Here are some of the autographs from my dad (Rollin Smith), my cousin Larry when he was six years old, my Grandpa Smith, and my Grandma Smith.
















Sunday, August 28, 2011

Bob & Linda's 16th Anniversary -- Munzesheimer Manor

I love going to Bed & Breakfast places, so Bob said it was OK with him if we spent our 16th anniversary at one. We talked about going to Eureka Springs, but I didn't want to spend time driving and riding in the car. We looked online at Bed & Breakfast places in Texas, then decided to stay at Munzesheimer Manor in Mineola. My friend Susan Bates Brooks knows the owners from when they all lived in Tulsa, and she recommended it. I took a look at their website -- http://www.munzesheimer.com/ and when I saw the photo of the house, I immediately decided that was the one I wanted to go to. I love the old Victorian houses and this was my idea of a B&B.

Bob and I left yesterday morning on the day of our 16th anniversary, after first having a late breakfast at one of my favorite places for breakfast in Dallas -- Dream Cafe. Mineola is one and a half hours from Dallas, so we didn't spend all of our time driving and riding in the car. We arrived at Munzesheimer Manor around 3 p.m. and met our wonderful host and hostess, Bob & Sherry, and checked into our beautiful room. Even though it was 101 degrees outside, Bob and I decided to check out the town of Mineola. There were some antique stores and lots of quaint shops that we enjoyed exploring. After we got cleaned up for dinner, we went to Kitchen's Hardware, Deli & Steakhouse for dinner. Yes, there was a hardware store and deli off to the side of the steakhouse. Bob & Sherry recommended it to us when we arrived and Sherry even called in our reservations. It was a good thing that we had the reservations, as the restaurant was packed! I had salmon and Bob had the steak for dinner. Everything we tasted was wonderful, but especially since we ate no lunch. Oh, we did try a fried pie at one of the little shops earlier. Those fried pies are very popular and in all of the shops and restaurants. It was my first one.

After dinner, Bob and I decided to drive around and see the area. We drove around Lake Fork Reservoir. When we had returned to the B&B, the other couple who was staying there and Bob and Sherry, were sitting in the living room visiting, so we joined them. I love meeting new people!

Bob said he liked the sound of the nearby freight train that whistled as it came through Mineola several times during the night. I heard it also, but it didn't keep me awake very long. I slept well in the comfy bed.

At eight o'clock sharp this morning, Bob & Sherry brought coffee and tea upstairs to our rooms. At nine o'clock, breakfast was served in the dining room. Bob made Dutch Babies and miniature blueberry muffins for breakfast. Very yummy! They even had moonshine syrup, that Bob & Sherry went to Louisiana to buy.

After breakfast and more visiting, we said our good-byes and headed back to Dallas. It was a wonderful 16th anniversary!

If you would like to see more photos of our trip, here is the link -- share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=8EbMmLJq3aKQ0A